From the Pen of the President.....
Last Friday.....
" My
journey started 55 years ago… as my mother stood in the queue to go to the
cinema in Umtata in the Transkei. She
never made the movie, my dad took her into hospital and then went back to watch
the movie…..
Apparently
I was a very difficult little girl and hence my grampa offered to adopt because
my mother could not manage my charming and challenging personality. I am not
sure if I have changed much and Rainer probably would love for my Grampa to
adopt me now….:)
I
have an older sister in the UK, a younger sister and brother in Australia and
my parents who are both still alive in Australia.
My
dad worked on West Rand Cons mine and my mother was a hairdresser. As a child I attended 3 primary schools and 2
high schools. Most of my childhood was spent in a place called Mooinooi near
Rustenburg. We commuted by bus daily in primary school and in High School I
asked to be in the hostel so I could participate in after school activities. We
were not wealthy, but I do not remember feeling compromised in any way.
Academically
I did alright and I played tennis for the first team. I started ballet at the
age of 4 and continued until age 12 when I gave it up for jazz dancing. Hostel
prefect.
Do
any of you remember POP SHOP with David Gresham???? Well I was on one of the
dances on a couple of his shows.
In my matric year I was fortunate to go the
United States on a tour, without my parents. It opened my eyes to a whole new
world. I had just turned 17. Because I
had taken Maths, Science, Accountancy and Economics… a good thing I felt would
be to learn how to type. So I went to technical college for a year and got a
secretarial certificate and worked part time for a clothes designer.
I could not see myself living and marrying a
man on the mine, I had other ideas, I was stubborn, determined, focused, I
wanted to go places and meet people.
I
then left home at the age of 18 and moved in with my aunt and uncle in
Springs…. Yes there was a reason… he was a year younger than me and we met
because his mother and my mother were in school together.
I
worked a part time job in a video store for a few months before getting a job
as a junior bookkeeper. I moved into my own flat. My relationship ended, life
went on and by then I was a senior secretary for a Customer services manager
and later a bookkeeper for an asset manager with Liberty Life in Braamfontein.
I
initially commuted to Johannesburg and back until one day I was in the train
going home when it was stoned by an angry mob of people who could not get home
because the 2nd class compartments were full. Yes it was back in the
time when you had 1st class and 2nd class SAR coaches. It
was however during one of my train rides to and from Johannesburg that I met my
ex-husband Doug, I was 20 at the time.
I
then moved to Johannesburg to stop this commuting to and from.
Doug
and I had been going out for just over a year when I bought my first townhouse
and he and I bought a piece of property together. After 4 years we got married.
I was 23 and 3 weeks pregnant, had my first child when I was 24, my second when
I was 25 and my third at 27.
When
my second child was 2 months old we moved to Botswana. Doug was a chartered
accountant and took a position in Selebi Phikwe, where my youngest was also
born.
So, arriving in the desert I asked myself what am I going to do?? I used these years to develop my domestic skills, I learned to sew and made some of my children’s clothes, I learned to cook and helped run a community coffee shop. I continued my dancing exams and I developed my thespian skills. I also did the books of a florist.
After
4 years we moved back to RSA to Richards Bay of all places. I applied for a
position with Knight Pieshold as righthand woman to the person running the
office. I got the position but 6 months later we moved to Zambia.
Again,
it was what am I to do here in Africa. I joined the PTA and later the board of
directors for the school my children were attending, it was also here that I
met Rainer for the first time.
These were crazy times and I remember going to Bangkok for a weekend with 6 women… we never slept. We shopped until we dropped and I came back and sold the goods I bought and this covered my costs of this fantastic trip… ..
I
joined the International Woman's Club and for a year was the president of the
club, which took me to meet the elders of a leper colony which lies an hour or
so out of Lusaka and at that time, the people in this community were not
allowed to attend any public hospitals. We provided seeds and other assistance
which they needed… I helped at an AIDS
orphanage.
Needing
some self-development, I completed a diploma in teaching English as a Second or
Foreign language and started my own import export company specialising in
ladies’ garments. Ran an audiology
business.
A
friend asked me to be the area manager for a cosmetic company and this awarded me the opportunity to do the makeup for the miss Zambia pageant.
It
was through the cosmetics business that I met a lady who was to be the daughter
in law to the now late President Sata… she came to purchase her wedding underwear
from me and I was invited to the wedding. There were 4 whites at a wedding of
800 people… my husband and I had such a good laugh… Mr Sata was then the Minister
without portfolio, and thought that because we had been invited to the wedding
that we must be really important people… he served us wine the whole night… I
hope no one ever told him we were nobodies in the biggest sense… ha ha ha…
Because
of my good experiences in Botswana, I joined the amateur dramatic club and was
picked for the role of Magenta in the Rocky Horror picture show… this was a hoot
from the first rehearsal in our underwear till the final of 14 shows where we
had a lawyer in the wings because of the possibility of being arrested for
being scantily dressed in a public place
After
4 wonderful years in Zambia our lives took us to Botswana once again and then
back to South Africa. Back in South Africa I enrolled in a B ed degree and started
teaching in a private school. However, my interests had changed and I swapped
my degree to a psychology degree.
I
was asked to assist in a special project at AirChefs working with a team of
Chartered Accounts to sort out their “Creditors”… it was an interesting project
and they asked me to stay on permanently….They offered to double my salary but
I chose to work with Rainer instead. At an ex-Zambian get together… at Rainer’s
house… he was talking to a friend of mine and he asked her… “Do you know anyone
who can set up and run my business in South Africa?” I turned around and said..
“I can”… That was the start of my business with Rainer… we developed a network
in Africa selling specialised equipment to the breweries and soft drink
companies… we were working with engineers from Germany and responsible for 21
countries. At the same time, I got involved in the Harveytile business and
developed the Zimbabwe region as well as help manage and direct the Zambian
operation.
We opened up a business in the DRC and for 6
years tried to break into the market amid the bribery and corruption which is
rife. Sadly, we left after making a huge loss… but the experiences are
irreplaceable. Let me share a few short stories with you… first… I never saw
another white woman walk across the Congolese border…..
…
we were attacked in Kinshasa walking down the road.. 2 guys jumped Rainer and
they rolled on the ground… it was not looking good and the only way Rainer saw
out was to stick his finger in one of the perpetrators throat… just then a 3rd
guy approached and said stop stop.. we ran one way and they ran the other…..
…on
another occasion we took a local minibus and because Rainer understands a bit
of Kiswahili understood that the discussion in the bus was whether to rob us or
not, half the bus said yes… we got off at the next stop…
…
One Friday going to the airport in Lubumbashi we were stopped a few km before
only to find out there was a shoot out between the rebels and the Congolese
army going on… we turned the car around and drove to the Zambian border… we did
not want to risk being caught up in a war….
..
another time crossing from Congo to Zambia by foot we were stopped by the
officer of the president to be searched…. They thought I was a journalist and
wanted me to unpack my bag… I did.. by showing the panel my garments one by
one.. until the lady got upset because she thought that I would buckle and
offer a bribe… instead I just repacked my bag neatly…. And on one occasion Rainer
and I were separated at the border… they took the passports and left me alone …
then they came back with Rainer and 2 men took me away… only for them to end up
arguing in French and me asking if I can leave… I looked calm… but inside I was
shivering with fear as I did not know what they wanted to do. …
Shortly
after our return to South Africa my ex-husband took a job in Abu Dhabi and we
in essence moved in different directions and got divorced. I went through a
difficult time and in order to find myself again decided to enter a triathlon
and completed the Psychology degree I had started some years ago… just this time
at a different institute. I completed both. I will continue my studies in the
hope to open my own practice at some point.
I
joined Rotary in 2005 and since 2012 am a proud member of the RC of Rosebank…
until they fire me for lack of personal attendance … 😊
I
married Rainer in 2018….. and we have relocated to Hamburg in Germany.
The day Juanette married Reiner |
As I said in the beginning… which parts of my crazy life do I share and in what detail…so I have given you the straight forward uncomplicated version… and now I would like to share some of the crazy things that happened during what seemed to be a relatively normal life….
Ø 3 Bungees - Highest Bungee in the world
Ø Zambezi White River Rafting
Ø Hot Air ballooning, champagne breakfast, etc.
Ø Skydiving over dunes in Namibia
Ø Quad biking through the dunes and sand boarding on the
dunes.
Ø Completed a 5-day hike through Drakensberg, did not
summit in Lesotho due to storm
Ø Completed the Otter trail
Ø Shark diving (in a cage in Hermanus)
Ø Snorkelled the Great Barrier Reef
Ø Driven Great Ocean Road and Gold Coast
Ø Visited the 12 Apostles in Australia and in Cape Town 😊
Ø Visited Blue Mountains
Ø Blue butterflies in Cairns (Special place where only
they are found)
Ø Enchanted Gardens in Sintra, Portugal, where Harry
Potter roamed
Ø Eaten Star Fish, Sea cucumbers, Duck tongue and Sea Cockroaches
in China
Ø Played tennis with Egyptian Ambassador in Zambia.
Ø The late President of Zambia, Sata, served me wine at
his son’s wedding because he thought I was someone important 😊
Ø Valentines Picnic on the Eifel Tower
Ø Skiing in Austria
Ø Visited Buckingham Palace
Ø Visited the White House
Ø Swimming with Dolphins in Mauritius
Ø Diving in Mauritius
Ø Parasailing over ship wreck in Comoros
Ø Travelled 1st and Business class over 50
times – do not belong to the Mile High club ☹ but have showered and slept in a suite
Ø Visited Ann Frank’s House and the Rijksmuseum
Ø Visited the Hole in the Wall in Transkei
Ø Thrown sticks off Poohsticks Bridge
Ø Walked through the 100-acre Wood
Ø Played Magenta in the Rocky Horror Picture Show
Ø Participated in a speed Triathlon …. And finished it!
Ø Spent 6 hours in a Sweat Lodge
Ø Fasted for 12 days (no food, only water)
Ø Sat with Elders from a Leper Colony
Ø Worked with orphaned HIV Aids babies
Ø Swam the Midmar Mile
Ø Held a Koala bear, Boa Constrictor and Crocodile
Ø Lay on rocks hanging over Victoria Falls at devil’s
pool
Ø Visited Twin Towers
Ø Been up Empire State
Ø Saw Liza Minnelli Live at Radio City Hall in New York
when I was 17
Ø Climbed down part of Grand Canyon
Ø Seen Old Faithfull explode
Ø Been to Disney, Universal Studios and Epcot centre
Ø Watched the Sun Set and skinny dipped in Key West
Ø Been on the Biggest Cruise ship in the world
Ø Cried my eyes out on Robin Island
Ø Danced on television and performed on stage many
times, acting and dancing
Ø Sewed my children’s clothes and made their birthday
cakes
Ø Watched a traditional burial, the burning of a body in
Nepal
Ø Saw the Kama Sutra engraved in wood around the top of
a temple in Nepal
Ø Travelled the Rovos Rail from Pretoria to Cape Town
Ø Briefly met Richard Branson
Ø Been on a house boat on Lake Kariba in Zimbabwe and
the Mürizt
in Germany
Ø Seen the Iguazu
falls
Ø Climbed up the
Erawan Falls (4th of 7 levels) in Thailand – 4th level
where little fishes eat the dead skin off your body
Ø Visited Kanchanaburi,
Thailand walked over the Death Railway, visited the JEATH war museum where
underneath every loin cloth the artist with much effort gave each man a penis
:0 LOL
Ø Slept in Hotel Del
Lago where the rich and famous met their lovers in the late 1800’s
Ø Been through the Everglades on an airboat to visit an old Indian village
Ø Travelled on a
train in Vietnam
Ø Visited Angkor Wat
in Cambodia
Ø Stayed 4 nights in
a Buddhist temple in the South of Korea
Ø Swam in a crocodile infested river in the Thuli block
Ø Am privileged to
ride a Harley Davidson
Last but not least… been booed of the stage because I cannot sing
……
I have been blessed with three amazing children who are successful in their own
right…
….
My blessings have been bountiful and I have been blessed with more than I need
which gives me the opportunity to share and care for others…. and I am grateful
every day for the full and amazing life that I have been able to live….
…. The people in my life including my Rotary friends have enriched me in so many ways and it is to each and every one of you that I am thankful for the experiences and love you have embraced me with…
What are the Anns getting up to?
President
Shirley is full of spring energy.
Recently a relative passed on without leaving a will. Shirley, not daunted by the scale of the
task, asked if the Anns could have the contents of her apartment and the family
agreed, provided that the Anns do the work of clearing out and transporting the
goods. Another Ann, Anne Whitehead made
space available in her garages and outbuildings, for the goods. It took a team of workers, marshalled by
Shirley, to clear out the premises so the apartment could be sold. In the process some of the goods were sold
and a tidy sum of money was raised to be put towards current and future
projects.
On Saturday
3 September a sale took place at Anne Whitehead’s home where clothes and
household goods were sold and a further tidy sum was raised. Friday morning was devoted to sorting and
laying out the goods for sale on the Saturday morning and some Anns pitched in
and helped. A team of Anns turned out on
Saturday morning to conduct the sale. A
WhatsApp text and photo reported that they had had fun and raised a pleasing
amount of money.
There is to
be a jumble sale at the end of September to dispose of more of the goods. This will be a wonderful shot in the arm for
the Anns funds for projects. Special
congratulations go to Shirley and Anne and all the Anns who helped and will
help with these sales.
Bridge
Drive
With Liz
Short’s drive and outstanding organisational skills, we are preparing for our
first post COVID fund raising bridge drive on 14 September. A committee has been meeting monthly to make
all the arrangements and the final details are being planned. There is still time for Rotarians to donate
raffle prizes – wine and chocolates are always greatly appreciated.
No comments:
Post a Comment